How do you handle being told no, being disagreed with or someone being rude to you

Yesterday I was with my mother buying pizza. We were waiting for about 20 minutes and our pizza wasn't done (usually takes 5 mins). I went up the the counter and asked, when our pizza will be done. I got the reply "when it's done my man". Sort of a rude reply but I basically shyed away. When others asked, they almost got their pizza immediately (I don't know how long they waited, but still)

Got me thinking about all the times people say no to me, disagree with me or are rude to me, I sort of shy away. What's the best way to handle these three situations

• Being told no/being rejected (not by a girl, just in general)
• Being disagreed with
• Someone being rude to you

Basically social situations where you are told things you don't want to hear or aren't in agreement with you.

Example of being told no:
Do you have <insert product> here at a store and instead of getting a reply like, "sorry we don't", you get a reply like "no". I feel awkward when I just get a "no" answer.

Example of disagreement:
In an assignment group (group of people you don't really know), you discuss something that you want to put into the end report but they disagree with what you want to put into the report.

Example of being rude:
Pizza example above

Even when my girlfriend's sisters make fun of me. They aren't being mean, just playful, I don't really know them well enough but I don't know how to react to that. I just smile and stay quiet.

Tryna ease myself out of being a Beta and become more stern and have a voice/say in things instead of being quiet.

You should remove being told no and being disagreed with because these are normal things but being rude applies to everything

i was going to write something more but i tabbed out and forgot

Did you ever get the pizza

if you got answer like that - just leave and later review them with 1 star, problem solved.

My reply: Whoops, ok, thanks you!

My reply: How can we improve the report then? It seems something's missing.
it happens everytime, I have a lot of projects in uni lol

Their reply isn't an personal attack or something like that, it's what you've asked, some people may have a rude tone but there's nothing you can do. I bet everyone of us at some point had replied/answered in a bad tone.

Don't let it affect you. If you let someone's shitty attitude or rejection throw you off balance in daily life, generally hard things will seem like mountains to overcome.
IDGAF attitude.

pizza dude: "when it's ready my dude".

me: *nods my head*

*walks away and waits for pizza ..... gets pizza*

*Nod* and walk the fuck out and give ZERO fucks. WHY? Because I got more important shit to do, fuck this nigga working in a pizza shop. Stop taking things personally, people will have bad attitudes. Build your mindset. Let that anxiety of rejection and people go. Expose yourself to it. Build calluses around your brain if you want to block out the bullshit and get shit done.


I'll never get in a verbal confrontation irl, unless it goes to extremes. I'd rather let my hands do the talking if some idiot is dumb enough to fight over an argument.