Not worth the hassle, plenty more fish in the sea.
help me
Originally Posted by Kyungrae
Like he confessed to her and kissed her out of nowhere
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Originally Posted by Venom
But if you're dating someone, you're expecting them to be honest with each other than hide something like this because the kiss was forced, to me she hid it because she liked it and didn't want to tell the boyfriend, this is what I'm getting.
It's like saying a rape survivor didn't say anything until years because he/she liked it
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Originally Posted by Kyungrae
I know she did it to keep me happy, but i would have been happier if she straight up told me the second it happened.
Trust is key to a relationship, where are you at if you can't trust one another? She broke my trust and it was not a random stranger.
It was her friend, we fought before because of him. He asked her to go to prom with him as friends because i was out of state. i told her to leave this dude because i know what his intentions are, she straight denied every accusation i made towards him and told me to trust her. one month later she asked me if she can go chill with him and that is were the kiss happened. I told her already that guy is planning something, she kept holding on with "he is not like that, he is my friend and he wont do anything like that, he is a sweet boy"
Trust is key to a relationship, where are you at if you can't trust one another? She broke my trust and it was not a random stranger.
It was her friend, we fought before because of him. He asked her to go to prom with him as friends because i was out of state. i told her to leave this dude because i know what his intentions are, she straight denied every accusation i made towards him and told me to trust her. one month later she asked me if she can go chill with him and that is were the kiss happened. I told her already that guy is planning something, she kept holding on with "he is not like that, he is my friend and he wont do anything like that, he is a sweet boy"
Originally Posted by Jacky
Shut up , stop saying stupid shit. She didn't have the courage to tell him at first. It takes times to cope on what just happened. It's not easy because you don't know how he will react about. It is better she says now then say when they are married or something.
It's like saying a rape survivor didn't say anything until years because he/she liked it
It's like saying a rape survivor didn't say anything until years because he/she liked it
Do you even comprehend or read before you write a mouthful of stupid out of your brain? Because for my understanding, you didn't spend any amount of time to read out loud and clear what you were reading. I refuse to understand that you legitimately had a hard time making up what you said.
For one; it happened awhile back, people have enough courage to build it back up and go forward with it, rather than hide it from someone who they've been together with for so long, which is destroying a trust towards someone, in this case, the OP, and hiding for someone and telling them that they are "sweet boy" and all that raises an eyebrow that the girl liked it and wouldn't tell about it, people with brain and not half-brain at this matter which most of the people here have, already told to leave that bitch behind, even if it was forced kiss, girl could simply push that said someone away if something is forced up on them, but normally girls freeze up and won't do sack shit, so please go ahead and call me stupid one more time.
Originally Posted by Venom
She didn't have courage to talk about a kiss that was forced upon HER? Are you fucking retarded? Assuming that you are because you are compering kiss to a rape. Am I reading this right? First you say this; Shut up , stop saying stupid shit. She didn't have the courage to tell him at first - then you say this; It takes times to cope on what just happened. It's not easy because you don't know how he will react about. It is better she says now then say when they are married or something...
Do you even comprehend or read before you write a mouthful of stupid out of your brain? Because for my understanding, you didn't spend any amount of time to read out loud and clear what you were reading. I refuse to understand that you legitimately had a hard time making up what you said.
For one; it happened awhile back, people have enough courage to build it back up and go forward with it, rather than hide it from someone who they've been together with for so long, which is destroying a trust towards someone, in this case, the OP, and hiding for someone and telling them that they are "sweet boy" and all that raises an eyebrow that the girl liked it and wouldn't tell about it, people with brain and not half-brain at this matter which most of the people here have, already told to leave that bitch behind, even if it was forced kiss, girl could simply push that said someone away if something is forced up on them, but normally girls freeze up and won't do sack shit, so please go ahead and call me stupid one more time.
OMG LMAO i said something small and you wrote me an essay
HAHAHA TL DR LATA KID
Originally Posted by Jacky
I'm not gonna bother answering but I'll answer it your way
OMG LMAO i said something small and you wrote me an essay HAHAHA TL DR
LATA KID
OMG LMAO i said something small and you wrote me an essay
HAHAHA TL DR LATA KID
No, just no. stop being stupid and leave her. I know it's hard but, yah knw.
leave my dude
just go and kiss the boy and see what here reaction is.
Originally Posted by Kyungrae
I know she did it to keep me happy, but i would have been happier if she straight up told me the second it happened.
Now the other part of your story makes it seem something more is happening. The response above is what I thought about before you told me the prom story. Without back story, there are a lot of assumptions made by us. Did she go to prom with him? If the answer is yes, she’s playing you. If the answer is no, more back story is needed.
But in the end all this “analysis” doesn’t matter if you can’t trust her again. Maybe she was forced kissed, but even if she was and you can’t trust her, then it’s not a relationship. So ask yourself, was she the girl you were going to marry? (Because you win dating by marrying your perfect girl).
If the answer is yes, will you trust her again if you 100% knew she was forced kissed and all these stories of her telling you he is sweet, the prom asking etc is still true)?
If the answer is still yes, then you should get to the bottom of this and find out if there is something happening or not.
If you have to ask for an opinion in this matter, then there is no point.
You said you feel betrayed, that means you can no longer trust her
You know the answer to your problem. It's just if you are willing to leave her or not.
FYI, I didn't read the other comments in this thread.
You said you feel betrayed, that means you can no longer trust her
You know the answer to your problem. It's just if you are willing to leave her or not.
FYI, I didn't read the other comments in this thread.
why didnt she resist when he wanted to kiss her?
i think she didnt tell you about it at first cause she might have feelings for that guy
if she doesnt have an answer for that id leave her and find a better one
i think she didnt tell you about it at first cause she might have feelings for that guy
if she doesnt have an answer for that id leave her and find a better one
Can someone get in an argument with me about this I wanna get my post count up.
BTW Phoon already broke up so what is the point still giving input on this.
BTW Phoon already broke up so what is the point still giving input on this.
I'm still waiting for Phoon to beat the guy's ass (dont actually). From what I hear, it sounds like the girl is innocent, she sounds confused, guilty, etc. Seriously tho, you have to confront the guy, why the fuck is the girl getting all the shafting when the 2nd guy ruined everything?
Originally Posted by Bernard
I'm still waiting for Phoon to beat the guy's ass (dont actually). From what I hear, it sounds like the girl is innocent, she sounds confused, guilty, etc. Seriously tho, you have to confront the guy, why the fuck is the girl getting all the shafting when the 2nd guy ruined everything?
She told you because she was afraid that you'd find out on your known. Meaning, there's a possibility that the guy has threatened her so she leaves you and goes with him or he tells you himself and a big fight would occur.
You lost a thot and won your dignity. Move on.
You lost a thot and won your dignity. Move on.
