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Empire,that's the best question we had at debate fort for the months I've been posting here
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Brother you have to be carefull, I've got a GF for 2,5 years now, I've had a relationship with her before I became a Muslim, she's a Muslim herself and at first I didn't want to know about Islam but for some reason I started doing research (After 2 years and 3 months) and now I myself am Muslim. I love her so therefore saying oke let's stop seeing each other is very difficult and I say it is not an option. So if it will work out with the lady you are dating, if she agrees get an Islamic marriage contract as soon as possible, you will not be married in law in where you live, but before Allah you are married. So then you can go ahead and do what you do if you know what I mean.


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Answering things with "you have to have faith" is funny.

So you love your GF or your mom more?

My answer to this question is that I love my GF more then my mother. Because she is the one I wish to spend the rest of my life with and inshallah (if god wills) marry. And the love for your GF is very different compared to the love for your mother. Of course you don't want to get intimate with your mother, like you do want to be intimate with your GF.
So I love my GF more then my mother.

Now off to reading a load of posts in here because I haven't tuned in.

I respect that :]

What i mean is:

Mother = Respectful relationship and the prophet said, heaven is under ur mothers feet. [i.e/ u can't enter heaven without lightening ur mothers thaughts of u]

So if i had to kill ma mother or Gf, i would do whichever ma mother wills, but if i know she isn't ready[has sinned a lot] i will save her, as saving her will lighten up her thaughts of me from - / +. negative to positive.

Though most people will think im craz, but ofc i will tell ma Gf to sa shahada even if she doesn't want to die as ma mother wills-goes.

Mu'aawiyah Ibne Juhaymah radhiyallahu anhumaa relates: My father, Juhaymah radhiyallahu anhu, went to the Apostle of Allah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and said, 'I intend to go on Jihaad and have come to seek your advice.' The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam asked him, 'Is your mother alive?' 'Yes' he replied. 'Then stay with her and look after her needs. Your Heaven lies under her feet' said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam .

I don't care.