HelpHow to create mod menu server publicly for alterIWnet

I already have a mod, I already went to a lot of servers, sadly whenever I use my mod tool forcing the game to start, no one joins besides the bots I have
Help??
Also, don't grab the dedicated server topic because I can't port forward. Don't ask why, I just can't.

Just ur ports are closed so u cant be the host and players cant join.

U can use hamachi for the people that are in the same network otherwise it doesnt make sense