Move out. Thats what I did. Mom was super controlling, threatened to take away and shred my license, so I told her I was moving out. Moved in with my dad, and after he started doing similar stuff, I just moved on my own.
Its nice to be living with the chains gone. My house is a wreck, I sleep or play vidya when Im not at work, have big loud parties, plenty of women over, and guess what? Nobody says a thing. Nice life.