Can someone help me? Using Trapped source

I got bored so I decided to play on a private server, but you know, VPS servers are usually laggy and I don't like using LogMeIn.
So, I set up Trapped source and when I turned on wServer.exe and it worked so I thought it would be the same for Server.exe, so I turned it on and I booted up the client and this came up...

Listening at Port 8080...
MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlException (0x80004005): Unable to connect to any of the specified MySQL hosts.
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.NativeDriver.Open()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.Driver.Open()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.Driver.Create(MySqlConnecti onStringBuilder settings)
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.CreateNewPooledCo nnection()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.GetPooledConnecti on()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.TryToGetDriver()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlPool.GetConnection()
at MySql.Data.MySqlClient.MySqlConnection.Open()
at db.Database..ctor()
at server.char.list.HandleRequest(HttpListenerContext context)
at server.Program.ProcessRequest(HttpListenerContext context)

I don't code so I don't know what can possibly fix this issue. Not running Skype, and System is English.
If it helps, I am using Windows XP SP3.