Hmm, I'm a dds farmer myself, and while I won't reveal too many secrets, I will say that NO there is no delay packet, you can put a bogus packet like "m" and hellquest will apply delay to it, or double a packet. There really shouldnt be a need for this.
And with the tp packet, you litteraly just have to join darkcemetery and capture the packet, not that hard, you do not however need to specify a name in the packet, putting "0" works.