help me

so last week another guy confessed his feelings for my girlfriend and kissed her.
she hid it from me but later on did tell me because she felt bad.
i don't know what i should do, i know asking for help on a hacking community is not the best idea but still at least some can relate.
i just feel betrayed by her not telling me. i don't know what to do anymore.
if someone just can give me any tips that would be grateful

Originally Posted by Kyungrae

so last week another guy confessed his feelings for my girlfriend and kissed her.
she hid it from me but later on did tell me because she felt bad.
i don't know what i should do, i know asking for help on a hacking community is not the best idea but still at least some can relate.
i just feel betrayed by her not telling me. i don't know what to do anymore.
if someone just can give me any tips that would be grateful

bruh leave, unless you wanna be a beta like @Smoke / @Wyo and be the 2nd option

Originally Posted by Shadow

bruh leave, unless you wanna be a beta like @Smoke / @Wyo and be the 2nd option

Should i really leave? i mean i know it may sound weird but i actually believe her and she cried her eyeballs out.

Originally Posted by Kyungrae

Should i really leave? i mean i know it may sound weird but i actually believe her and she cried her eyeballs out.

leave dude lol. take it from somebody who has been there done that. dont simp over a bitch. she didnt tell you cause she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings end of story. the fact she even let that happen/ hanging around people like him just shows shes no good. leave her or you'll regret it.

Originally Posted by Kyungrae

Should i really leave? i mean i know it may sound weird but i actually believe her and she cried her eyeballs out.

u clearly have no fucked her yet so I advice doing so, and if it turns you on then let him fuck her while u watch.

Either way leaving is the last thing a real alpha would do.

Yea I would say leave cause she's not loyal. The fact that she even kept in contact with him is just...meh

I agree and would say to leave. She didn't stop him from kissing her and when it did happen, she didn't tell you.

If it's bothering you so much, you know what to do

@Kyungrae I saw this post where the dad said to the daughters prom date "Anything you do to my daugter, i would do the same to you" Maybe that might work ?
But um .. You should probably just let her be. Assuming that you have already talked about this, both of you should take a break from seeing each other for a while. Seeing that she didn't tell you about it until later on proves she might do it again or has other secrets she doesn't want to tell you about. It will be a matter of time before she cheats on you and becomes serious. :3 I always tell my friends that if relationships dont work out break up and find someone else.

Originally Posted by Lily

@Kyungrae I saw this post where the dad said to the daughters prom date "Anything you do to my daugter, i would do the same to you" Maybe that might work ?
But um .. You should probably just let her be. Assuming that you have already talked about this, both of you should take a break from seeing each other for a while. Seeing that she didn't tell you about it until later on proves she might do it again or has other secrets she doesn't want to tell you about. It will be a matter of time before she cheats on you and becomes serious. :3 I always tell my friends that if relationships dont work out break up and find someone else.

Yeah, but like i told her from the beginning already "that guy is no good, trust me i am a guy and i know what he wants"
the first bad feeling about the guy was when he asked her out to prom as friends since i was out of state.
She told me that the same day it happened, we argued about that and how i felt, she was blinded by his "sweet" side.
she sees him as a friend nothing more and told me to relax, i forgave that person out of love for her. Yet the guy keeps thinking i'm a someone he can step on.
a month later she asked me if she can go chill with the same guy, and that's where the kiss happened. she kept it from me because she wanted to protect my feelings from being hurt because we haven't argued for awhile. She eventually told me because it was apparently "killing" her.
She later on kept calling me, coming to my house telling me how sorry she was and that she made a huge mistake and such.
I just feel betrayed by her, i still love and care about this girl but my trust in her is just not there anymore.

Originally Posted by Kyungrae

Yeah, but like i told her from the beginning already "that guy is no good, trust me i am a guy and i know what he wants"
the first bad feeling about the guy was when he asked her out to prom as friends since i was out of state.
She told me that the same day it happened, we argued about that and how i felt, she was blinded by his "sweet" side.
she sees him as a friend nothing more and told me to relax, i forgave that person out of love for her. Yet the guy keeps thinking i'm a someone he can step on.
a month later she asked me if she can go chill with the same guy, and that's where the kiss happened. she kept it from me because she wanted to protect my feelings from being hurt because we haven't argued for awhile. She eventually told me because it was apparently "killing" her.
She later on kept calling me, coming to my house telling me how sorry she was and that she made a huge mistake and such.
I just feel betrayed by her, i still love and care about this girl but my trust in her is just not there anymore.

She is playing the innocent card with you. I would just end it there because she might do it again. If it was "bothering" her she would have told you the instant it happened. But um.. its your choice. The chances of a couple staying together after one cheats is slim and that is because no one wants to be with someone that can't stay loyal or comitted to their relationship. You should just give up and date a waifu xD jk

Honestly she should have told you right away, why did she have to wait however long it was to tell you because she felt bad? This obviously is something you need to have a serious talk about if you are being serious. It's a red flag and you might not want to but imo it would be in your best interest to leave her. Move on and find someone better, but we dont know the whole story.

Originally Posted by Kyungrae

so last week another guy confessed his feelings for my girlfriend and kissed her.
she hid it from me but later on did tell me because she felt bad.
i don't know what i should do, i know asking for help on a hacking community is not the best idea but still at least some can relate.
i just feel betrayed by her not telling me. i don't know what to do anymore.
if someone just can give me any tips that would be grateful

It takes 2 people to kiss

Just leave her tbh, it'll happen again and you will really regret it.

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Originally Posted by Lily

She is playing the innocent card with you. I would just end it there because she might do it again. If it was "bothering" her she would have told you the instant it happened. But um.. its your choice. The chances of a couple staying together after one cheats is slim and that is because no one wants to be with someone that can't stay loyal or comitted to their relationship. You should just give up and date a waifu xD jk

hey i know this is off topic, but can you give me the imgur link for the derp image title, and can i please use it? ty

Yea just leave not worth it. She wanted to chill with him and you let that happened. I would smash her one last time before you leave though just to get that through. When you smashing it, that's when you break up with her.

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